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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 497924" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>That was a hard call on your part and I do understand your panic at his mugging and the lack of shelter. I get it we all do but yes you did rescue him. I made that same mistake once or twice. Most of us did. Detachment is a process with a strong learning curve. don't beat yourself up over it just do better next time.</p><p></p><p>I too hadd the immediate thought as to whether your home would be safe in your absence. If it were me (and I have had to do this)I would take all valuables including the deed to the bank and put them in a safety deposit box or leave them with a trusted family member. Portable lock boxes do not work! difficult child's just remove them from the site and take a saw to them to break into. difficult child's seem to like the challenge of foiling our attempts to protect ourselves. Do you have someone you could trust to be a house sitter? someone that would not give in to your difficult child and give him access to your home? </p><p></p><p>I hope you can comfortably secure all material that is presious to you and enjoy your vacation with peace of mind.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 497924, member: 2315"] That was a hard call on your part and I do understand your panic at his mugging and the lack of shelter. I get it we all do but yes you did rescue him. I made that same mistake once or twice. Most of us did. Detachment is a process with a strong learning curve. don't beat yourself up over it just do better next time. I too hadd the immediate thought as to whether your home would be safe in your absence. If it were me (and I have had to do this)I would take all valuables including the deed to the bank and put them in a safety deposit box or leave them with a trusted family member. Portable lock boxes do not work! difficult child's just remove them from the site and take a saw to them to break into. difficult child's seem to like the challenge of foiling our attempts to protect ourselves. Do you have someone you could trust to be a house sitter? someone that would not give in to your difficult child and give him access to your home? I hope you can comfortably secure all material that is presious to you and enjoy your vacation with peace of mind. [/QUOTE]
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