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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 591307" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>She sent a picture of her paystub last night. This was 4 days after I sent the text reminding her that she had agreed to do that during our family therapy call. Then she followed it up with a "what's up" text. I texted back asking how she was doing. She said okay and then asked if she had any shoes left here since hers was falling apart and I said no to which she answered "bummer" because hers were falling apart.</p><p></p><p>I didn't respond to that. Today, she texted to ask if she could make a gyno appointment for tomorrow assuming that we would pay the $25 copay. I responded that I would like to wait and discuss it during our family therapy phone call on Thursday.</p><p></p><p>Part of me is willing to pay for it since she hasn't had an gyn. exam in years and she has had problems with very painful periods every other month which worries me that something could be wrong with one of her ovaries.</p><p></p><p>However, she also let me know her primary concern was birth control which to me is something that she should take care of. Her lack of boundaries is obviously still a problem. I couldn't have imagined telling my mom that I wanted her to pay for my birth control.</p><p></p><p>On the other hand, it is good that she is thinking ahead about it rather than ending up pregnant. She said she is not currently sexually active but wants to be prepared.</p><p></p><p>I am torn on this one. We are already paying her health insurance at $249 a month so she would only have to pay a $25 copay to see a doctor as long as he/she was in the network. Shouldn't this be her responsibility?</p><p></p><p>Let me know what you think . . .</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 591307, member: 1967"] She sent a picture of her paystub last night. This was 4 days after I sent the text reminding her that she had agreed to do that during our family therapy call. Then she followed it up with a "what's up" text. I texted back asking how she was doing. She said okay and then asked if she had any shoes left here since hers was falling apart and I said no to which she answered "bummer" because hers were falling apart. I didn't respond to that. Today, she texted to ask if she could make a gyno appointment for tomorrow assuming that we would pay the $25 copay. I responded that I would like to wait and discuss it during our family therapy phone call on Thursday. Part of me is willing to pay for it since she hasn't had an gyn. exam in years and she has had problems with very painful periods every other month which worries me that something could be wrong with one of her ovaries. However, she also let me know her primary concern was birth control which to me is something that she should take care of. Her lack of boundaries is obviously still a problem. I couldn't have imagined telling my mom that I wanted her to pay for my birth control. On the other hand, it is good that she is thinking ahead about it rather than ending up pregnant. She said she is not currently sexually active but wants to be prepared. I am torn on this one. We are already paying her health insurance at $249 a month so she would only have to pay a $25 copay to see a doctor as long as he/she was in the network. Shouldn't this be her responsibility? Let me know what you think . . . ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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