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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 73171" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>Until your son loses his rights, this boyfriend has no rights. This was the situation I was in until our last court date when I was listed as a managing conservator of all my difficult children and I was married to their father and lived with them. However, if ex claims boyfriend is the mediator between difficult interactions, than she can use him as such. This still doesn't give him rights to refuse visits.</p><p></p><p>Please don't take this part wrong, but if it were me, I would probably be doing the same thing. If husband's ex's parents were visiting the kids and ran across their daughter and she spoke with my difficult children, I'd be furious. My situation is different though, her rights have been terminated. I still don't think I'd be able to forgive even an accidental meeting. I would just be so angry. My kids are starting to heal and any contact would derail that.</p><p></p><p>Does your son have visitation rights or are the visitations just for you as grandparents? </p><p></p><p>When we started this battle we did go against some court orders in the best interest of the kids. The court never fined us and never scolded us, because they agreed it was in the best interest. This may be the route these two are going to try and head down. If so, be prepared for a lengthy court battle. Ours took a little more than 2 years and about $25K-$30K, it might be more, but last I calculated it was between that.</p><p></p><p>I do not want to discourage you, please don't think that. I just hope you are prepared for all the stress that comes with it. I gained 60 lbs, my mood changed, I just wasn't the real me during those 2 years and I'm just now starting to get the real me back. (((hugs))) for what you're dealing with now and what may come in the near future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 73171, member: 3837"] Until your son loses his rights, this boyfriend has no rights. This was the situation I was in until our last court date when I was listed as a managing conservator of all my difficult children and I was married to their father and lived with them. However, if ex claims boyfriend is the mediator between difficult interactions, than she can use him as such. This still doesn't give him rights to refuse visits. Please don't take this part wrong, but if it were me, I would probably be doing the same thing. If husband's ex's parents were visiting the kids and ran across their daughter and she spoke with my difficult children, I'd be furious. My situation is different though, her rights have been terminated. I still don't think I'd be able to forgive even an accidental meeting. I would just be so angry. My kids are starting to heal and any contact would derail that. Does your son have visitation rights or are the visitations just for you as grandparents? When we started this battle we did go against some court orders in the best interest of the kids. The court never fined us and never scolded us, because they agreed it was in the best interest. This may be the route these two are going to try and head down. If so, be prepared for a lengthy court battle. Ours took a little more than 2 years and about $25K-$30K, it might be more, but last I calculated it was between that. I do not want to discourage you, please don't think that. I just hope you are prepared for all the stress that comes with it. I gained 60 lbs, my mood changed, I just wasn't the real me during those 2 years and I'm just now starting to get the real me back. (((hugs))) for what you're dealing with now and what may come in the near future. [/QUOTE]
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