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We had to throw our adult son out two days ago for stealing again.
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 529048" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Ga - </p><p></p><p>I have one natural born son that is 21. I've buried 2 sons at the ages of 18 - that were not my natural born sons - but I loved them just the same as. One from a bull riding accident 14 years ago, and one three years ago on Friday the 13th who burned alive driving his car. When the youngest of the three made himself a real challenge it was very hard bcause he wanted to go live with my x - who is a psycho path/sociopath and has tried numerous times to kill me. I didn't know if he would do similar things to my son or leave him be - or what - he's badly into drugs and not in his right mind to begin with. SO throwing him out and having him go live with a crazy drug addict was a double whammy - but when you are a kid and keep on and on and on about how bad you have it? I have places you can go (from my past) that will SHOW you - how bad it can really get. And he found out quick, fast and in a hurry that there are real people out there that boast real crazy, and do REAL big time drugs and are beyond your capabilities of ruthless to get what they want. He got a real good taste of the world and doesn't want anything to do with that end of it. I tried to take him away from it - and he ran screaming to it. I tried to "tell him" what was there and protect him from it - and he went eyes wide open and so much smarter than me - knowing so much more than I did - and found out - Mom knew what she was talking about - and 20 years ago - the guy wasn't a broken down old man - so yeah - it was worse then - than it is now - and he finally said "I just can't imagine what you went through Mom you had NO ONE." and I said "Well you have us..so don't be stupid." </p><p>And he's working real hard not to be. Buit I had to close my eyes and hold m y breath a lot - </p><p></p><p>If nothing else? My x can scare the mortal hell out of anyone - and for that? I'm thankful - because for being who he is? I don't think my son will EVER be like he thought he wanted to be. So in a way he did do him a favor. The world is a cruel place if you allow your kids to live in it and grow up. Its the holding your breath that makes you think you're going to pass out and not make it - You have to learn how to breath while they're surviving.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 529048, member: 4964"] Ga - I have one natural born son that is 21. I've buried 2 sons at the ages of 18 - that were not my natural born sons - but I loved them just the same as. One from a bull riding accident 14 years ago, and one three years ago on Friday the 13th who burned alive driving his car. When the youngest of the three made himself a real challenge it was very hard bcause he wanted to go live with my x - who is a psycho path/sociopath and has tried numerous times to kill me. I didn't know if he would do similar things to my son or leave him be - or what - he's badly into drugs and not in his right mind to begin with. SO throwing him out and having him go live with a crazy drug addict was a double whammy - but when you are a kid and keep on and on and on about how bad you have it? I have places you can go (from my past) that will SHOW you - how bad it can really get. And he found out quick, fast and in a hurry that there are real people out there that boast real crazy, and do REAL big time drugs and are beyond your capabilities of ruthless to get what they want. He got a real good taste of the world and doesn't want anything to do with that end of it. I tried to take him away from it - and he ran screaming to it. I tried to "tell him" what was there and protect him from it - and he went eyes wide open and so much smarter than me - knowing so much more than I did - and found out - Mom knew what she was talking about - and 20 years ago - the guy wasn't a broken down old man - so yeah - it was worse then - than it is now - and he finally said "I just can't imagine what you went through Mom you had NO ONE." and I said "Well you have us..so don't be stupid." And he's working real hard not to be. Buit I had to close my eyes and hold m y breath a lot - If nothing else? My x can scare the mortal hell out of anyone - and for that? I'm thankful - because for being who he is? I don't think my son will EVER be like he thought he wanted to be. So in a way he did do him a favor. The world is a cruel place if you allow your kids to live in it and grow up. Its the holding your breath that makes you think you're going to pass out and not make it - You have to learn how to breath while they're surviving. [/QUOTE]
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