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We had to throw our adult son out two days ago for stealing again.
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<blockquote data-quote="Chasing Happiness" data-source="post: 531606" data-attributes="member: 14653"><p>I am sorry to hear about your struggles too. i have 3 adult children. my oldest is fine and a well adjusted adult, married with children. my second daughter is now 20. years of heartache and drug use and yes stealing all the time. i made her leave our house many times. she and her boyfriend bounced from house to house from friends. at one point last summer they even pitched a tent outside by the river and i just couldnt let her stay with me. it hurt to do it. anyways over time i did let her move back in on the condition of no stealing, holding a job, etc... she had a job she worked 2 days a week at but couldnt steal if she wanted to because our bedroom door at a full proof lock on it. we began fighting again and i knew my husband and i were looking to move to the country for some peace in our lives as years of teenage chaos with 2 of the kids took its toll on us, me especially. She moved into a friends with her boyfriend. she is now 5 mos pg and says shes clean so i pray she is. were on talking terms and trying to work things out.</p><p></p><p>My son turned 18 in sept. very verbally abusive to me, wouldnt go to school, lasted 2 days at a job, destroyed the house by punching holes in walls, doors etc... i was so stressed that i began to suffer from severe anxiety, panic attacks, and depression. i told him when we were going to move and he couldnt move with us. he moved in with his dad and its been hell since. he had 2 visits with us and both visits ending in him pleading to move back in with us and me having to say no cause i need to keep the sanity i have left. again it turning abusive and i got texts, voicemails, a letter in the mail, terrible things said to me. right now were not even speaking. </p><p></p><p>it is so hard to do to let go and im still trying to move on with my own life. i take it one day at a time and i do alot of praying and talking to God. Not pushing religion on anyone for sure but for me it helps me on my darkest days.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chasing Happiness, post: 531606, member: 14653"] I am sorry to hear about your struggles too. i have 3 adult children. my oldest is fine and a well adjusted adult, married with children. my second daughter is now 20. years of heartache and drug use and yes stealing all the time. i made her leave our house many times. she and her boyfriend bounced from house to house from friends. at one point last summer they even pitched a tent outside by the river and i just couldnt let her stay with me. it hurt to do it. anyways over time i did let her move back in on the condition of no stealing, holding a job, etc... she had a job she worked 2 days a week at but couldnt steal if she wanted to because our bedroom door at a full proof lock on it. we began fighting again and i knew my husband and i were looking to move to the country for some peace in our lives as years of teenage chaos with 2 of the kids took its toll on us, me especially. She moved into a friends with her boyfriend. she is now 5 mos pg and says shes clean so i pray she is. were on talking terms and trying to work things out. My son turned 18 in sept. very verbally abusive to me, wouldnt go to school, lasted 2 days at a job, destroyed the house by punching holes in walls, doors etc... i was so stressed that i began to suffer from severe anxiety, panic attacks, and depression. i told him when we were going to move and he couldnt move with us. he moved in with his dad and its been hell since. he had 2 visits with us and both visits ending in him pleading to move back in with us and me having to say no cause i need to keep the sanity i have left. again it turning abusive and i got texts, voicemails, a letter in the mail, terrible things said to me. right now were not even speaking. it is so hard to do to let go and im still trying to move on with my own life. i take it one day at a time and i do alot of praying and talking to God. Not pushing religion on anyone for sure but for me it helps me on my darkest days. [/QUOTE]
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