Thank you, Copa and ksm.
When I am.in pain I need to explain why. Everyone does. If we can't, the board then may be useful to the person who criticizes but not to me. If I or anyone else leaves it will lack more people, more voices. That's in my opinion not a good thing.
A lot of times nobody posts, especially new people. I would not be surprised if this good resource shuts down at this rate, but I don't want that so I will make an effort to show up as long as I am given support. I can not control what issues happen with my daughter but I need to be able to explain them or the board doesn't help me.
Let's try to be compassionate....what I posted was horrifying to me. We need to post to keep things going. I got more criticism than support about what had brought me to the board that day. I wanted to hear how other parents deal with adult kids who nonstop talk about conspiracy theories and added that my daughter was terrified.
I felt alone and as if I were bad for posting about Kay's issues and fears. But I digress to the issue of slowness on the board.
Maybe the pandemic slowed things down? Let's keep posting to help each other.
Love and hugs to all and no anger toward anyone 
