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<blockquote data-quote="lovelyboy" data-source="post: 509522" data-attributes="member: 8045"><p>I think the BIG thing that keeps sticking in my own mind is that I am not sure what behaviour is caused by 'illness' and what is just him being the rudest child I have ever seen! Sorry, but this is how I feel at the moment! I dont know if spitting on the ground towards a mom or swearing, or burping after being asked politely to stop or showing inappropriate middle finger signs can be part of Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)! BUT.....I also dont know of any other NT child that will KEEP on doing this even after punishments, talking and asking nicely to stop...threatening, NOTHING can make him stop! Surely this cant be 'normal'....BUT unfortunatly the neuro's opinion that he can see nothing wrong with my son except terrible rude manipulative behaviour and that its all our fault for allowing this behaviour to develope, cant seem to go away.....All this is having such a bad influence on our relationship with difficult child...I tell him he is rude, that we will not be able to let him visit his grandma if he cant behave....that his behaviour embaresses me exct. All the ugliest things in the world....and he just say he is sorry.....this makes him feel terrible....but I can see he doesnt have ANY clue how to behave differently and if so he finds it extreamly difficult to apply! I feel like running away.....like taking my kids and hide from the world!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovelyboy, post: 509522, member: 8045"] I think the BIG thing that keeps sticking in my own mind is that I am not sure what behaviour is caused by 'illness' and what is just him being the rudest child I have ever seen! Sorry, but this is how I feel at the moment! I dont know if spitting on the ground towards a mom or swearing, or burping after being asked politely to stop or showing inappropriate middle finger signs can be part of Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)! BUT.....I also dont know of any other NT child that will KEEP on doing this even after punishments, talking and asking nicely to stop...threatening, NOTHING can make him stop! Surely this cant be 'normal'....BUT unfortunatly the neuro's opinion that he can see nothing wrong with my son except terrible rude manipulative behaviour and that its all our fault for allowing this behaviour to develope, cant seem to go away.....All this is having such a bad influence on our relationship with difficult child...I tell him he is rude, that we will not be able to let him visit his grandma if he cant behave....that his behaviour embaresses me exct. All the ugliest things in the world....and he just say he is sorry.....this makes him feel terrible....but I can see he doesnt have ANY clue how to behave differently and if so he finds it extreamly difficult to apply! I feel like running away.....like taking my kids and hide from the world! [/QUOTE]
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