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Week #3 of our trip through ODD land
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<blockquote data-quote="needprayers" data-source="post: 376942"><p>Thanks for the comments. </p><p></p><p>I like the comments on the phone, especially taking the battery out <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p></p><p>We are keeping a daily journal on him. </p><p></p><p>Last night after he calmed down, I got him to tell me "why" he hated his mother. </p><p></p><p>difficult child says its because:</p><p>1. she (we) take his stuff away</p><p>2. Tells him to do the same thing over & over, and </p><p>3. Yells at him upstairs. (children rooms/playroom upstairs)</p><p></p><p>So I told him we would work on the yelling, and instead walk up the stairs to tell the kids to hurry up <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p>I explained to him if he did what we asked the first time, we wouldn't tell him over & over (he gets three chances to comply). We would work on telling him one thing at a time, but he must do what we ask.</p><p>Then I explained we take his stuff away as a direct result of his actions/insubordination. If he follows rules for a few days, then he can earn his stuff back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="needprayers, post: 376942"] Thanks for the comments. I like the comments on the phone, especially taking the battery out :D We are keeping a daily journal on him. Last night after he calmed down, I got him to tell me "why" he hated his mother. difficult child says its because: 1. she (we) take his stuff away 2. Tells him to do the same thing over & over, and 3. Yells at him upstairs. (children rooms/playroom upstairs) So I told him we would work on the yelling, and instead walk up the stairs to tell the kids to hurry up :) I explained to him if he did what we asked the first time, we wouldn't tell him over & over (he gets three chances to comply). We would work on telling him one thing at a time, but he must do what we ask. Then I explained we take his stuff away as a direct result of his actions/insubordination. If he follows rules for a few days, then he can earn his stuff back. [/QUOTE]
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