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<blockquote data-quote="lovemysons" data-source="post: 610863" data-attributes="member: 3305"><p>Pasajas, </p><p>Hugs...I am so sorry things are not going well with your son since he got out of detention. </p><p></p><p>Your post spoke to me as I too was "abandoned" by an alcoholic dad when I was 2 yrs old. So I never knew him, I wasn't raised by him. I did finally meet him at age 17. It did not go well as he wanted to "forget the past" and I told him I LIVED THE PAST YOU WANT TO FORGET. That was ME. </p><p></p><p>Well...time passed and I did not see him again until a month before his death a few yrs ago. </p><p>All I asked for when I went to the hospital to see him that month before his death, was a letter, a note...something in writing from him as I had never even gotten a birthday card from bio dad my whole life. </p><p>It was ALL I asked for...but nothing. Not a single written word from him my whole life. </p><p>It would have meant the world to me...to have some closure ya know. </p><p></p><p>Sooo, in thinking about this...I would ask bio dad if he would send a loving letter of closure to your son. I think it would mean so very much to your son and to heal that sense of loss some. </p><p></p><p>What a delicate situation. </p><p>Thinking of you and difficult child, </p><p>love,</p><p>LMS</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lovemysons, post: 610863, member: 3305"] Pasajas, Hugs...I am so sorry things are not going well with your son since he got out of detention. Your post spoke to me as I too was "abandoned" by an alcoholic dad when I was 2 yrs old. So I never knew him, I wasn't raised by him. I did finally meet him at age 17. It did not go well as he wanted to "forget the past" and I told him I LIVED THE PAST YOU WANT TO FORGET. That was ME. Well...time passed and I did not see him again until a month before his death a few yrs ago. All I asked for when I went to the hospital to see him that month before his death, was a letter, a note...something in writing from him as I had never even gotten a birthday card from bio dad my whole life. It was ALL I asked for...but nothing. Not a single written word from him my whole life. It would have meant the world to me...to have some closure ya know. Sooo, in thinking about this...I would ask bio dad if he would send a loving letter of closure to your son. I think it would mean so very much to your son and to heal that sense of loss some. What a delicate situation. Thinking of you and difficult child, love, LMS [/QUOTE]
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