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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 610864" data-attributes="member: 805"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">Gosh, I don't know. What if next year difficult child decides he wants to look for his father and finds out he has died. Would you be able to live with yourself knowing you didn't give him the chance to make his own decision about seeing him at the end? What if he finds out that you knew? Even though the information came without intent and out of the blue, I just don't know how I feel about it.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">*The other issue is difficult child's stability. If you feel this will negatively impact his life right now, then perhaps it's best not to let him know. Since it's sounds like he's not doing well, what do you think the information will mean to him? </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">Can you tell I'm not sure how I feel about it?</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">I guess the bottom line here is this --- you know your son better than anyone else on this planet. You know if this will be information he would want to know and how the information would impact him emotionally and behaviorally. Since you have raised your boy, you also know if he has expressed any interest, in his "adult" years, of meeting or finding his sperm donor.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">You will make the right decision about this.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'">*Sharon</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 610864, member: 805"] [SIZE=3][FONT=comic sans ms]Gosh, I don't know. What if next year difficult child decides he wants to look for his father and finds out he has died. Would you be able to live with yourself knowing you didn't give him the chance to make his own decision about seeing him at the end? What if he finds out that you knew? Even though the information came without intent and out of the blue, I just don't know how I feel about it. *The other issue is difficult child's stability. If you feel this will negatively impact his life right now, then perhaps it's best not to let him know. Since it's sounds like he's not doing well, what do you think the information will mean to him? Can you tell I'm not sure how I feel about it? I guess the bottom line here is this --- you know your son better than anyone else on this planet. You know if this will be information he would want to know and how the information would impact him emotionally and behaviorally. Since you have raised your boy, you also know if he has expressed any interest, in his "adult" years, of meeting or finding his sperm donor. You will make the right decision about this. *Sharon [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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