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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 274466" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Daisy, </p><p> </p><p>I'm very sorry for your K's pain. I hope she is able to get some help from somewhere. If she is dying - why hasn't hospice stepped in to help? Does K's husband have a plan for the kids now? I hate to sound so morbid and dark, but I have a sneaking suspicion that grandma and grandpa are going to be raising 2 more little children. Which is fine if you can - but I think someone should be asking the "after" questions NOW - before she's too far gone to make any decisions - does she have a guardian? A living will? </p><p> </p><p>No one WANTS to even mention these things - but should she perish? WHAT requests of hers will be able to be honoroed or like most people tied up in court for years while the kids live with ???? </p><p> </p><p>Not trying to minimalize her pain and your grief in any way - just trying to minimalize YOUR pain over her in the future. IT's going to be hard enough when she does pass for you and husband - but then to not have a plan when you could have one now with her wishes is going to be harder on EVERYONE. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs - sending prayers for your family. </p><p>STar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 274466, member: 4964"] Daisy, I'm very sorry for your K's pain. I hope she is able to get some help from somewhere. If she is dying - why hasn't hospice stepped in to help? Does K's husband have a plan for the kids now? I hate to sound so morbid and dark, but I have a sneaking suspicion that grandma and grandpa are going to be raising 2 more little children. Which is fine if you can - but I think someone should be asking the "after" questions NOW - before she's too far gone to make any decisions - does she have a guardian? A living will? No one WANTS to even mention these things - but should she perish? WHAT requests of hers will be able to be honoroed or like most people tied up in court for years while the kids live with ???? Not trying to minimalize her pain and your grief in any way - just trying to minimalize YOUR pain over her in the future. IT's going to be hard enough when she does pass for you and husband - but then to not have a plan when you could have one now with her wishes is going to be harder on EVERYONE. Hugs - sending prayers for your family. STar [/QUOTE]
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