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<blockquote data-quote="kris" data-source="post: 17186" data-attributes="member: 74"><p><span style="color: #660000">robbie, you're not really surprised by any of this, are you? he's done nothing but provoke you & husband since he hit your door. the only thing he did do is get his drivers license & in truth that was pretty self~serving, wasn't it? by the way, who's paying the insurance???? shouldn't be you & husband.</p><p></p><p>you did exactly what he wanted you to do. he wanted to leave, but he wanted to make it all your fault. with-o meaning to be you & husband were putty in his hand. </p><p></p><p>he will come crying back. you both need to stand firm on this & make sure he is well & truly out of the next. it's the only way to get him to move forward. you cannot keep rescuing him. </p><p></p><p>it hurts like the dickens right now, but with-time, the pain will ease. i know you fear your future relationship with-him....but truly what relationship did you have? seems like he was the pugilist & you were his punching bag. i also think he was a master at triangulating you & husband. our kids hone this to a fine art arrrgh!</p><p></p><p>keep communications with-husband open. it's okay to disagree, but stay strong & presnet a united front even when you disagree. </p><p></p><p>the only thing i wish had been different was if husband had been the one to tell him to go. but i understand why you did.</p><p></p><p>lick your wounds ~~ & he's inflicted many....then pick yourself up & move forward ~~~ with-husband.</p><p></p><p>kris </span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kris, post: 17186, member: 74"] <span style="color: #660000">robbie, you're not really surprised by any of this, are you? he's done nothing but provoke you & husband since he hit your door. the only thing he did do is get his drivers license & in truth that was pretty self~serving, wasn't it? by the way, who's paying the insurance???? shouldn't be you & husband. you did exactly what he wanted you to do. he wanted to leave, but he wanted to make it all your fault. with-o meaning to be you & husband were putty in his hand. he will come crying back. you both need to stand firm on this & make sure he is well & truly out of the next. it's the only way to get him to move forward. you cannot keep rescuing him. it hurts like the dickens right now, but with-time, the pain will ease. i know you fear your future relationship with-him....but truly what relationship did you have? seems like he was the pugilist & you were his punching bag. i also think he was a master at triangulating you & husband. our kids hone this to a fine art arrrgh! keep communications with-husband open. it's okay to disagree, but stay strong & presnet a united front even when you disagree. the only thing i wish had been different was if husband had been the one to tell him to go. but i understand why you did. lick your wounds ~~ & he's inflicted many....then pick yourself up & move forward ~~~ with-husband. kris </span> [/QUOTE]
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