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Well, its finally his day in court
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 651288" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>None of us have a right answers on how to deal with our adult (or minor) kids. Most of us are trying to find, or have already found, a way that somewhat works for us. Somewhat minimizes the damage to us and our loved ones. But we are different people, our troubled children are different people, our life situations, resources available to us and so on differ. We can give opinions and others may get some insight from those, but we do not have answers to other people's situations and we shouldn't write like we had.</p><p></p><p>If there would be some magic way, that would make us happy (and maybe even help our kids), that would be nice, but I haven't noticed anyone here would have obtained something like that.</p><p></p><p>EDIT: CoM mentioned we are on different points of our journeys. That is true. It is also important to remember that those journeys, nor the destinations they lead, are not the same either. We can't say, that now you are there, but wait ten years and you will be where I'm now. Some cases that may happen, in many others it does not. Different people, different issues, different lives, different journeys.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 651288, member: 14557"] None of us have a right answers on how to deal with our adult (or minor) kids. Most of us are trying to find, or have already found, a way that somewhat works for us. Somewhat minimizes the damage to us and our loved ones. But we are different people, our troubled children are different people, our life situations, resources available to us and so on differ. We can give opinions and others may get some insight from those, but we do not have answers to other people's situations and we shouldn't write like we had. If there would be some magic way, that would make us happy (and maybe even help our kids), that would be nice, but I haven't noticed anyone here would have obtained something like that. EDIT: CoM mentioned we are on different points of our journeys. That is true. It is also important to remember that those journeys, nor the destinations they lead, are not the same either. We can't say, that now you are there, but wait ten years and you will be where I'm now. Some cases that may happen, in many others it does not. Different people, different issues, different lives, different journeys. [/QUOTE]
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