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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 635935" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>I don't really have a way around that. What happened Friday is I got up to pee and saw his light on so I said, "Hey, you up?" And he had fallen asleep and the tantrum was on. </p><p></p><p>But really, do I have much of a choice? If I say, "If you don't work you can't live here." Well, don't I have to know if he's working? The where he goes/what he spends, etc. I actually don't know that. Yes, my husband GPS'd him the other day, to make sure he had, in fact, gone home after work instead of running around it the car, because the car is work only. If he goes out and doesn't come back all night, all I ask is he tell me he's not coming home so I don't worry. I don't even ask him where he goes or what he does with the exception of when he has the car. </p><p></p><p>The fact is, most I know I know because he volunteers it. I know his check yesterday was $36 because he told me. I don't think I asked...he called and asked if it was okay to add a trip to Walmart to cash his check to his mileage on the car. That sort of thing. </p><p></p><p>Oh I don't know...I don't want this. I want him on his own. I want his to get his head out of his ... When he was gone on his 10 month vacation that was supposed to be college, my life was much simpler. </p><p></p><p>I just don't want him to lie to me anymore. I truly hate a liar more than anything on this earth. He knows this. He's always known this. Still he's a liar. I value being trustworthy over anything. Really more than anything. In my view it's the ONE thing a decent person must be. The single most important trait a person should have. My son is not trustworthy. I hate this so much. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I really don't do that. If I cook something and he wants to eat it he's welcome, but if not he cooks for himself. I only threw the laundry in yesterday because I thought he had to be at work today and I had tons of time. He dried and folded. Granted, I told him to, or it would still be wet.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I love my furbabies. They really are adorable. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 635935, member: 17309"] I don't really have a way around that. What happened Friday is I got up to pee and saw his light on so I said, "Hey, you up?" And he had fallen asleep and the tantrum was on. But really, do I have much of a choice? If I say, "If you don't work you can't live here." Well, don't I have to know if he's working? The where he goes/what he spends, etc. I actually don't know that. Yes, my husband GPS'd him the other day, to make sure he had, in fact, gone home after work instead of running around it the car, because the car is work only. If he goes out and doesn't come back all night, all I ask is he tell me he's not coming home so I don't worry. I don't even ask him where he goes or what he does with the exception of when he has the car. The fact is, most I know I know because he volunteers it. I know his check yesterday was $36 because he told me. I don't think I asked...he called and asked if it was okay to add a trip to Walmart to cash his check to his mileage on the car. That sort of thing. Oh I don't know...I don't want this. I want him on his own. I want his to get his head out of his ... When he was gone on his 10 month vacation that was supposed to be college, my life was much simpler. I just don't want him to lie to me anymore. I truly hate a liar more than anything on this earth. He knows this. He's always known this. Still he's a liar. I value being trustworthy over anything. Really more than anything. In my view it's the ONE thing a decent person must be. The single most important trait a person should have. My son is not trustworthy. I hate this so much. I really don't do that. If I cook something and he wants to eat it he's welcome, but if not he cooks for himself. I only threw the laundry in yesterday because I thought he had to be at work today and I had tons of time. He dried and folded. Granted, I told him to, or it would still be wet. I love my furbabies. They really are adorable. :) [/QUOTE]
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