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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 117299" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Actually, as a borderline person I couldn't agree with this statement more. Now my parents were not overly involved <em>most of</em> the time but when they were I rebelled horribly. This was especially true after I became an adult. </p><p></p><p>My mother wanted to keep me completely dependent on her but she also wanted to throw that fact in my face at all times. It was a messed up dynamic. She was all about control. I wont get into the whole drama but...lets just say there were dependency issues and anger and rebellion.</p><p></p><p>I'm not saying that is what you are doing at all. Don't take what I'm saying to mean that. I'm just saying that if someone is borderline then they can react in certain ways to certain situations because of the diagnosis. We are complex animals.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 117299, member: 1514"] Actually, as a borderline person I couldn't agree with this statement more. Now my parents were not overly involved [I]most of[/I] the time but when they were I rebelled horribly. This was especially true after I became an adult. My mother wanted to keep me completely dependent on her but she also wanted to throw that fact in my face at all times. It was a messed up dynamic. She was all about control. I wont get into the whole drama but...lets just say there were dependency issues and anger and rebellion. I'm not saying that is what you are doing at all. Don't take what I'm saying to mean that. I'm just saying that if someone is borderline then they can react in certain ways to certain situations because of the diagnosis. We are complex animals. [/QUOTE]
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