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What a surprise. Father actually did not call.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 642020" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, color me shocked...BUT HE CALLED.</p><p></p><p>He didn't' apologize or admit any wrongdoing, but he said he wanted to put the event behind us. That's the best it's gonna get. He did not raise his voice and I repeated that I'm not going to fight with anybody anymore.</p><p>It was a short conversation. It always is. If it's not about him, he gets bored quickly.</p><p>I don't know how I feel. I know my request won't stop him from yelling if he feels like it, but just like this time, I will not contact him after he yells and wait for him to contact me and speak nicely. Maybe he'll get my boundary. In fact, if he EVER does that again, I'm hanging up on him, which infuriates him. But his screaming and insults don't do much for ME so I am not going to listen to it.</p><p>I didn't say much. I never do either when I talk to him. There is nothing to talk about with me except him and the weather so we had maybe a short three minute discussion about the weather.</p><p>I wish I felt happy he called me, but I'm more focused on something going on with Jumper, who is one of the members of my REAL family...somebody who loves me who I love back. So I can't give him too much thought right now. I'll think more about it later because I like to analyze what people do. Right now...not in the mood.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 642020, member: 1550"] Well, color me shocked...BUT HE CALLED. He didn't' apologize or admit any wrongdoing, but he said he wanted to put the event behind us. That's the best it's gonna get. He did not raise his voice and I repeated that I'm not going to fight with anybody anymore. It was a short conversation. It always is. If it's not about him, he gets bored quickly. I don't know how I feel. I know my request won't stop him from yelling if he feels like it, but just like this time, I will not contact him after he yells and wait for him to contact me and speak nicely. Maybe he'll get my boundary. In fact, if he EVER does that again, I'm hanging up on him, which infuriates him. But his screaming and insults don't do much for ME so I am not going to listen to it. I didn't say much. I never do either when I talk to him. There is nothing to talk about with me except him and the weather so we had maybe a short three minute discussion about the weather. I wish I felt happy he called me, but I'm more focused on something going on with Jumper, who is one of the members of my REAL family...somebody who loves me who I love back. So I can't give him too much thought right now. I'll think more about it later because I like to analyze what people do. Right now...not in the mood. [/QUOTE]
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