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What a surprise. Father actually did not call.
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 642213" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I believe that too MWM and it has always been that way for me too. I've been at this for decades, one toxic person at a time, I've now gone through most of my bio family, many of my former friends, associates of all kinds......and as I've recognized the toxicity and set my boundaries, I am MUCH, MUCH happier. I am MUCH safer and MUCH more comfortable in my world. </p><p></p><p>I believe that folks who are unconscious to their impact on me and others are <em>extremely</em> hazardous to my health. They may not know what they are doing or saying that is hurtful, but now I DO. I completely agree that it is on us to remove ourselves from that energy. I refuse to be a victim to anyone. And, without that energy around me, my level of peacefulness, serenity and joy has increased dramatically. I know that's true for you too, I've been reading your posts now for 3 years and like me, you've walked away from all of it. Life changes in every possible way when we detach and accept. Radical acceptance works. But before you get there, you have to let go on SO many levels........ That's the dicey part.......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 642213, member: 13542"] I believe that too MWM and it has always been that way for me too. I've been at this for decades, one toxic person at a time, I've now gone through most of my bio family, many of my former friends, associates of all kinds......and as I've recognized the toxicity and set my boundaries, I am MUCH, MUCH happier. I am MUCH safer and MUCH more comfortable in my world. I believe that folks who are unconscious to their impact on me and others are [I]extremely[/I] hazardous to my health. They may not know what they are doing or saying that is hurtful, but now I DO. I completely agree that it is on us to remove ourselves from that energy. I refuse to be a victim to anyone. And, without that energy around me, my level of peacefulness, serenity and joy has increased dramatically. I know that's true for you too, I've been reading your posts now for 3 years and like me, you've walked away from all of it. Life changes in every possible way when we detach and accept. Radical acceptance works. But before you get there, you have to let go on SO many levels........ That's the dicey part....... [/QUOTE]
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