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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 454678"><p>It sounds like you need to be very specific about what "clean up your toys" means. According to him, he did pick up his toys and when that "wasn't good enough", he freaked out. That is typical in our house with my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son. I can't use vague terms like that unless I am prepared for his idea of picked up to be enough. The hammering on the door was not okay. I also have learned to give very clear warnings BEFORE I implement consequences. It was a long process for me but the pay-off is that we have less meltdowns because I am very clear about EXACTLY what I expect. I have also found that giving very clear fair warning ahead of time gives him a choice to continue the behavior or deal with the consequences.</p><p></p><p>I hate to tell you this, but your son sounds more Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) the more you share your issues with his behavior and the circumstances surrounding them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 454678"] It sounds like you need to be very specific about what "clean up your toys" means. According to him, he did pick up his toys and when that "wasn't good enough", he freaked out. That is typical in our house with my Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) son. I can't use vague terms like that unless I am prepared for his idea of picked up to be enough. The hammering on the door was not okay. I also have learned to give very clear warnings BEFORE I implement consequences. It was a long process for me but the pay-off is that we have less meltdowns because I am very clear about EXACTLY what I expect. I have also found that giving very clear fair warning ahead of time gives him a choice to continue the behavior or deal with the consequences. I hate to tell you this, but your son sounds more Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) the more you share your issues with his behavior and the circumstances surrounding them. [/QUOTE]
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