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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 599812" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>I am sitting here, exhausted, because our difficult child (age 15) had an overnight with a friend (16) at our house. At 2:50am we are woken up by a phone call and when we answered, no one was there. I didn't recognize the number so I called the number back and difficult child answered and said "Can you come pick us up? We are at 7th and xxx street" I kept trying to get more information from her but she wasn't telling us much. Finally she said, there are two cops here, and he will release us to a parent or guardian" I asked if little sis (13) was there too... and she was. I asked if her friend wanted us to call her parents and was told that she would call them.</p><p></p><p>husband went and got them... and they had been in a pick up (dual cab) with three boys... and a 14yo was driving, and then two older twin boys who difficult child's friend has a crush on. I guess the police said the truck was driving erratically and swerved in front of them. They let husband take our girls home, their friend was waiting on her parents to show up. easy child said they were all given a breathalizer test. easy child was in tears, scared to death. difficult child said it was all her and her friend that arranged it... that easy child just went a long. But she didn't share the same remorse that easy child did. I think she was just mad she got caught. Maybe there was some true regret, but I didn't see it. We said we would be discussing it this morning.</p><p></p><p>husband thought he heard the door close at about 1:20am - so he got up and checked the front door... and it still had the dead bolt on... so he went back to bed. He didn't think to check the back door. I am furious with the girls. I am sitting here trying to figure out what will be a big deterrent to this ever happening again. I doubt that easy child will try it again any time soon. Not so sure about difficult child. I guess I am more disappointed in easy child as I hadn't expect this behavior from her. We took away easy child's iPod last night. They do not have their own computers. difficult child has lost all her electronics and we have not yet given them cell phones. This was all arranged on the other girls cell phone. Needless to say, the other girl will not be welcome in a long time.</p><p></p><p>Tuesday next week... we see the neuropsychologist for test results on difficult child. KSM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 599812, member: 12511"] I am sitting here, exhausted, because our difficult child (age 15) had an overnight with a friend (16) at our house. At 2:50am we are woken up by a phone call and when we answered, no one was there. I didn't recognize the number so I called the number back and difficult child answered and said "Can you come pick us up? We are at 7th and xxx street" I kept trying to get more information from her but she wasn't telling us much. Finally she said, there are two cops here, and he will release us to a parent or guardian" I asked if little sis (13) was there too... and she was. I asked if her friend wanted us to call her parents and was told that she would call them. husband went and got them... and they had been in a pick up (dual cab) with three boys... and a 14yo was driving, and then two older twin boys who difficult child's friend has a crush on. I guess the police said the truck was driving erratically and swerved in front of them. They let husband take our girls home, their friend was waiting on her parents to show up. easy child said they were all given a breathalizer test. easy child was in tears, scared to death. difficult child said it was all her and her friend that arranged it... that easy child just went a long. But she didn't share the same remorse that easy child did. I think she was just mad she got caught. Maybe there was some true regret, but I didn't see it. We said we would be discussing it this morning. husband thought he heard the door close at about 1:20am - so he got up and checked the front door... and it still had the dead bolt on... so he went back to bed. He didn't think to check the back door. I am furious with the girls. I am sitting here trying to figure out what will be a big deterrent to this ever happening again. I doubt that easy child will try it again any time soon. Not so sure about difficult child. I guess I am more disappointed in easy child as I hadn't expect this behavior from her. We took away easy child's iPod last night. They do not have their own computers. difficult child has lost all her electronics and we have not yet given them cell phones. This was all arranged on the other girls cell phone. Needless to say, the other girl will not be welcome in a long time. Tuesday next week... we see the neuropsychologist for test results on difficult child. KSM [/QUOTE]
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