This is my son you are describing. His life. He doesn't want a normal life. He doesn't want a normal job. He doesn't want four walls and a roof. He doesn't want bills to pay. He doesn't want anyone else to have any expectations of him. He doesn't want to be told "this is how people are supposed to live, you have to do the same". If he had a time-machine I think he would travel back to the stone-age, where life was just survival, simple, uncomplicated. I have no idea how he survives or, even more amazingly, seems to enjoy his lifestyle. He tells me that centuries ago this is how people lived, "yes" I say, "but their life expectancy was about 30 at best". Shrug. He doesn't care, just thinks I'm dumb to not 'get' it. I've stopped judging him by my own standards, it's best for you to do the same. I think my son would get on well with your sons Alb and Com. For a short time anyway 
