Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
What do I do now? Son problems!
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Glinda" data-source="post: 585549" data-attributes="member: 16079"><p>I took your advice and I put his dress clothes in a bag this morning and sent his friend a text asking to tell him that he can pick his things up. He must of been with his friend because he texted me right back and said he will wait for me to be home. I told him I didn't know when I would be home so just come get them. He responded that he needed to talk to me and claimed he had a job interview tomorrow and wanted to talk to me about it. Of course I started crying but I told him he he didn't need my advice and he needed to get that job on his own. Then he got mad and I won't repeat the response but it wasn't anything nice or respectful. I got a few texts like that and I just deleted them without responding. When I got home today the clothes were gone and there was a note in the mailbox that said "I hope you know your son has no where to stay and just sleeps at all different houses and then stays in the baseball clubhouse all day until he finds another place to go. Maybe you should do something about that. A friend." I have no doubt that my son wrote it, it's in his handwriting but even so I started with the crying again. I really don't know how I have any tears left, I mean they have to dry up at some point. I was talking to my girlfriend at work who doesn't know about my situation but knows I'm stressed and depressed and she asked me if I wanted to go to the gym with her tonight. She says exercise might help relieve some stress so I'm going to try it. It's better than sitting in the house letting my mind go crazy! I have to start finding things to keep me busy otherwise I will go get my difficult child. In two weeks my other three will be home for Easter so that will help too. I am proud of myself though. I don't think I've ever gone more than three days without giving into him. It sucks and hurts but I'm doing it with all of y'all's help! Thank you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Glinda, post: 585549, member: 16079"] I took your advice and I put his dress clothes in a bag this morning and sent his friend a text asking to tell him that he can pick his things up. He must of been with his friend because he texted me right back and said he will wait for me to be home. I told him I didn't know when I would be home so just come get them. He responded that he needed to talk to me and claimed he had a job interview tomorrow and wanted to talk to me about it. Of course I started crying but I told him he he didn't need my advice and he needed to get that job on his own. Then he got mad and I won't repeat the response but it wasn't anything nice or respectful. I got a few texts like that and I just deleted them without responding. When I got home today the clothes were gone and there was a note in the mailbox that said "I hope you know your son has no where to stay and just sleeps at all different houses and then stays in the baseball clubhouse all day until he finds another place to go. Maybe you should do something about that. A friend." I have no doubt that my son wrote it, it's in his handwriting but even so I started with the crying again. I really don't know how I have any tears left, I mean they have to dry up at some point. I was talking to my girlfriend at work who doesn't know about my situation but knows I'm stressed and depressed and she asked me if I wanted to go to the gym with her tonight. She says exercise might help relieve some stress so I'm going to try it. It's better than sitting in the house letting my mind go crazy! I have to start finding things to keep me busy otherwise I will go get my difficult child. In two weeks my other three will be home for Easter so that will help too. I am proud of myself though. I don't think I've ever gone more than three days without giving into him. It sucks and hurts but I'm doing it with all of y'all's help! Thank you! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
What do I do now? Son problems!
Top