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<blockquote data-quote="JLady" data-source="post: 221662" data-attributes="member: 6439"><p>I honestly don't know what my son needs. I don't know how to handle the situations. Yes, he hitting others concerns me. I did make the appointment with the child psyc. hoping for better results. What I really want is someone to explain to me what to expect. If this is normal, tell me it is normal. If it isn't, tell me it isn't. Don't just throw some initials up in the air and tell me whatever hits the floor first. </p><p> </p><p>I mentioned something about my ex and aparently that was a mistake. Perhaps I should just go into detail... this is an annomys site right? My ex was very abusive and we were only married a short time. He hurt me and the older children. I often wonder why God blessed me with this third child so much younger than the other two and so much more difficult but I'm sure He has His reasons. (what a terrible thing for a mom to say huh?)</p><p> </p><p>The pediatrician asked about my son's dad and I explained that he was a small baby when we left. We now live 200 miles from his dad and there is a very good reason for that. He had visitation every other weekend and when my son would come home he would say things like "mommy, why don't you love me? Daddy says you don't love me" "Mommy why are you a Xitch?" and he would tell me about how he saw his dad hit his girlfriend. Things like that. Once I told the doctor this... he immediately jumped to ODD and didn't have much else to say. I know it was a bad situation and I feel horrible about ever putting my children in it. It is embarrasing that as old as I am I should have seen the signs and didn't. I moved the kid away to get away from the influence. It's like once the pediatrician heard abuse.. he was done with us. He said that stuff is detremental to a child as young as my son. Duh! That stuff is detrimental to anyone! That is why we moved away.</p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/felttip/sad-very.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sad-very:" title="sad-very :sad-very:" data-shortname=":sad-very:" />I just am so blah today and don't know what to think. I'm all consumed again with this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JLady, post: 221662, member: 6439"] I honestly don't know what my son needs. I don't know how to handle the situations. Yes, he hitting others concerns me. I did make the appointment with the child psyc. hoping for better results. What I really want is someone to explain to me what to expect. If this is normal, tell me it is normal. If it isn't, tell me it isn't. Don't just throw some initials up in the air and tell me whatever hits the floor first. I mentioned something about my ex and aparently that was a mistake. Perhaps I should just go into detail... this is an annomys site right? My ex was very abusive and we were only married a short time. He hurt me and the older children. I often wonder why God blessed me with this third child so much younger than the other two and so much more difficult but I'm sure He has His reasons. (what a terrible thing for a mom to say huh?) The pediatrician asked about my son's dad and I explained that he was a small baby when we left. We now live 200 miles from his dad and there is a very good reason for that. He had visitation every other weekend and when my son would come home he would say things like "mommy, why don't you love me? Daddy says you don't love me" "Mommy why are you a Xitch?" and he would tell me about how he saw his dad hit his girlfriend. Things like that. Once I told the doctor this... he immediately jumped to ODD and didn't have much else to say. I know it was a bad situation and I feel horrible about ever putting my children in it. It is embarrasing that as old as I am I should have seen the signs and didn't. I moved the kid away to get away from the influence. It's like once the pediatrician heard abuse.. he was done with us. He said that stuff is detremental to a child as young as my son. Duh! That stuff is detrimental to anyone! That is why we moved away. :sad-very:I just am so blah today and don't know what to think. I'm all consumed again with this. [/QUOTE]
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