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What do you know about Borderline Personality Disorder?
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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 400839" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Whatamess--</p><p> </p><p>I do not have Borderline (BPD) - but I have learned a lot about it lately pursuing a diagnosis for my difficult child.</p><p> </p><p>I would say that BPDs are the ULTIMATE passive-aggressives, the ULTIMATE two-faced liars, they have to be the center of attention all the time and no one is a bigger victim than they. You can never resolve anything with a Borderline (BPD) because they have trouble admitting their own culpability - it is always the fault of others who are only out to get them or "ganging up on them". You will never be able to "top" a Borderline (BPD) because they've had it worse than you, longer than you, they're more experienced than you, seen more of the world than you, and on and on and on....</p><p> </p><p>on the other hand - you don't have to have Borderline (BPD) to behave badly. We have all done that from time to time....we have all had less-than-stellar moments when dealing with others. We can ALL be passive-aggressive. We ALL play the victim sometimes. We ALL like to be the center of attention. And sometimes, we don't like to admit that we are wrong...</p><p> </p><p>It only becomes a disorder when your actions/reactions are extreme compared to the norm.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 400839, member: 6546"] Whatamess-- I do not have Borderline (BPD) - but I have learned a lot about it lately pursuing a diagnosis for my difficult child. I would say that BPDs are the ULTIMATE passive-aggressives, the ULTIMATE two-faced liars, they have to be the center of attention all the time and no one is a bigger victim than they. You can never resolve anything with a Borderline (BPD) because they have trouble admitting their own culpability - it is always the fault of others who are only out to get them or "ganging up on them". You will never be able to "top" a Borderline (BPD) because they've had it worse than you, longer than you, they're more experienced than you, seen more of the world than you, and on and on and on.... on the other hand - you don't have to have Borderline (BPD) to behave badly. We have all done that from time to time....we have all had less-than-stellar moments when dealing with others. We can ALL be passive-aggressive. We ALL play the victim sometimes. We ALL like to be the center of attention. And sometimes, we don't like to admit that we are wrong... It only becomes a disorder when your actions/reactions are extreme compared to the norm. [/QUOTE]
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