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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 131495" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Wow. What a mess you have on your plate.</p><p></p><p>From the sound of things, you need to detach from both McW AND wife.</p><p>It sounds like wife is going to undermine you regardless of whether you take action or don't. It sounds like wife is way to enmeshed in the drama of McW. When you take steps that reduce the drama, wife weighs in and creates some.</p><p></p><p>Just my $0.02, but it does seem that wife is thriving on the chaos every bit as much as McW. You're being thwarted every time you calm things down.</p><p></p><p>I CAN tell you that if my husband spoke to me the way your wife speaks to you, he would be my EX-H in a hurry. </p><p></p><p>You can't stop McW from destroying himself, and you can't stop wife from blaming you for it. She's not prepared to acknowledge that McW is doing this to himself, and she's not ready to step away. I think wiser heads than mine need to comment. I'm out of ideas.</p><p></p><p>Hope you find peace, or at least some quiet.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 131495, member: 3907"] Wow. What a mess you have on your plate. From the sound of things, you need to detach from both McW AND wife. It sounds like wife is going to undermine you regardless of whether you take action or don't. It sounds like wife is way to enmeshed in the drama of McW. When you take steps that reduce the drama, wife weighs in and creates some. Just my $0.02, but it does seem that wife is thriving on the chaos every bit as much as McW. You're being thwarted every time you calm things down. I CAN tell you that if my husband spoke to me the way your wife speaks to you, he would be my EX-H in a hurry. You can't stop McW from destroying himself, and you can't stop wife from blaming you for it. She's not prepared to acknowledge that McW is doing this to himself, and she's not ready to step away. I think wiser heads than mine need to comment. I'm out of ideas. Hope you find peace, or at least some quiet. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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