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What do you think of what the counsellor suggests?
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 532703" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>I have to say I disagree with this. You can not have your cake and eat it too. And I don't think that one can reasonably wait adult level of responsibility from someone and not give them adult freedoms. What would be a point from the kids point of view? If you treat your teen as a adult, while it suits your agenda, it will be very difficult to go back and say, that oh, you are still a small kid, so you can not have these freedoms, while that suits you. People just don't deal with something like that well at all. And you are back in square one with power struggle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 532703, member: 14557"] I have to say I disagree with this. You can not have your cake and eat it too. And I don't think that one can reasonably wait adult level of responsibility from someone and not give them adult freedoms. What would be a point from the kids point of view? If you treat your teen as a adult, while it suits your agenda, it will be very difficult to go back and say, that oh, you are still a small kid, so you can not have these freedoms, while that suits you. People just don't deal with something like that well at all. And you are back in square one with power struggle. [/QUOTE]
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