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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 694310" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Leafy, I have been thinking about your post this afternoon, and now that I am finally able to respond I see that others have much the same thoughts.</p><p></p><p>I think this reconciliation that Blossom seeks is for Blossom; it is a way for her to process and find meaning in your husband's death. She is making you part of her desire to have a happy ending.</p><p></p><p>If I am out of turn to say this, Leafy, I apologize...but I don't think it is fair to YOU for anyone to ask you to do that, to ask you to force anything right now. And I also don't think that Blossom understands with the depth you do the implications of Rain's issues, and their ramifications if you open a door (both literally and figuratively) right now.</p><p></p><p>No doubt your husband would want a reconciliation, but I don't see him wanting you to go against your heart, force something that you know from long experience cannot be received right now, put yourself in an unsafe position, or cause yourself any undue stress for ANY reason at this time. I might be out of turn to say that also, Leafy. I did not know your husband, only what you have written about him. But that is what I picture, when I think about the reconciliation I would envision. My dream would be that a reconciliation would be initiated by the changes and overtures that would come from RAIN.</p><p></p><p>Again, Leafy, I am sorry if I do not know what I am talking about, but I am glad you are sitting back and letting all of this gel. I am glad you are getting support from Hoku and Son. I am glad you are listening to your heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 694310, member: 17720"] Leafy, I have been thinking about your post this afternoon, and now that I am finally able to respond I see that others have much the same thoughts. I think this reconciliation that Blossom seeks is for Blossom; it is a way for her to process and find meaning in your husband's death. She is making you part of her desire to have a happy ending. If I am out of turn to say this, Leafy, I apologize...but I don't think it is fair to YOU for anyone to ask you to do that, to ask you to force anything right now. And I also don't think that Blossom understands with the depth you do the implications of Rain's issues, and their ramifications if you open a door (both literally and figuratively) right now. No doubt your husband would want a reconciliation, but I don't see him wanting you to go against your heart, force something that you know from long experience cannot be received right now, put yourself in an unsafe position, or cause yourself any undue stress for ANY reason at this time. I might be out of turn to say that also, Leafy. I did not know your husband, only what you have written about him. But that is what I picture, when I think about the reconciliation I would envision. My dream would be that a reconciliation would be initiated by the changes and overtures that would come from RAIN. Again, Leafy, I am sorry if I do not know what I am talking about, but I am glad you are sitting back and letting all of this gel. I am glad you are getting support from Hoku and Son. I am glad you are listening to your heart. [/QUOTE]
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