I liked what Echo said about downsizing at 70 and again, at 80. We are overwhelmed whenever we try to discuss what to do inheritance-wise because there is no good choice. I was thinking about this last night.
This is another look at what it is to love difficult child kids. The fear guitaristmom spoke of ~ the fear of somehow coming under the control of our difficult child kids, is something husband and I have talked about.
These are all good things to look at straight on.
We don't know yet how we are going to handle this. We have six grandchildren. I am thinking about this quite seriously.
Cedar
