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<blockquote data-quote="Iwantpeace" data-source="post: 656196" data-attributes="member: 18531"><p>I'm new here and am very impressed the the wisdom in so many. I am no where near the place that it seems some of you have found. I love the post about enabling at the top and I believe I need to copy a lot of these things I've seen posted and put them everywhere. The bathroom mirror, the frig, my car, my phone screen saver! I'm thinking I need to speak it into a recorder and play it back to myself as I drive. It hurts to let go of the HOPE of Difficult Child future. Will those hurtful words stop playing in my mind? Why am I hurt and not angry? I should be angry after finding out all the terrible things (lies) he has told people for years that I never new. I should be angry after the threats and stress in my life. Maybe I will get to that point, for now it seems like all I can do is cry!! There is still a part of me that is in denial. He works and makes his own money. Never ask me for money. He definatley would use me for anything I ever offered, and I offered a lot. He's never been in trouble with the law. Until now, he did break an injunction with the ex so I am waiting to see what happens. He has had some hurtful things happen in his life. Now the other side-, I'm ashamed to admit. I have already told about my property damage He did out of anger because I wouldn't get grandchild for him to see because I beleived he was out of control with adderol. What kind of person would make threats to hurt me or other people? Some of the things he has said, no mother or person should ever hear come out of anyone's mouth. I can answer my own question actually, he's out of control from adderol and maybe Xanax which is a bad combination.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Iwantpeace, post: 656196, member: 18531"] I'm new here and am very impressed the the wisdom in so many. I am no where near the place that it seems some of you have found. I love the post about enabling at the top and I believe I need to copy a lot of these things I've seen posted and put them everywhere. The bathroom mirror, the frig, my car, my phone screen saver! I'm thinking I need to speak it into a recorder and play it back to myself as I drive. It hurts to let go of the HOPE of Difficult Child future. Will those hurtful words stop playing in my mind? Why am I hurt and not angry? I should be angry after finding out all the terrible things (lies) he has told people for years that I never new. I should be angry after the threats and stress in my life. Maybe I will get to that point, for now it seems like all I can do is cry!! There is still a part of me that is in denial. He works and makes his own money. Never ask me for money. He definatley would use me for anything I ever offered, and I offered a lot. He's never been in trouble with the law. Until now, he did break an injunction with the ex so I am waiting to see what happens. He has had some hurtful things happen in his life. Now the other side-, I'm ashamed to admit. I have already told about my property damage He did out of anger because I wouldn't get grandchild for him to see because I beleived he was out of control with adderol. What kind of person would make threats to hurt me or other people? Some of the things he has said, no mother or person should ever hear come out of anyone's mouth. I can answer my own question actually, he's out of control from adderol and maybe Xanax which is a bad combination. [/QUOTE]
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