Lil, there are people who never in their whole life want to go to work, to school, get an apartment, or a better apartment, let alone clean the apartment.
And there are people with profound and fixed limitations that do all of these things.
Which is it for our sons? Does it matter at this point, now that they are adults and our role is over? Except for love....
Is wanting him to be different....do differently, simply a need of my own that I am projecting onto the situation....wrongly?
I get tangled in the weeds.
