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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 296230" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>This whole thing sounded hinky when you posted that he kept running away to your sister. Then when you refused to give her guardianship she refused to speak to you? You KNOW nothing positive could have happened in that household, not toward you and your husband.</p><p></p><p>Step up, speak out and tell him and sis Not just no but Heyall no! (big southern drawl on that word too!)</p><p></p><p>Sounds like your sis is tired of him and maybe put some rules onto him.</p><p></p><p>Esp when as recently as mother's day all he wanted from you was emancipation.</p><p></p><p>Listen to your instincts. They are screaming NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!</p><p></p><p>Your easy child has a right to a home that is peaceful and happy. You and husband have to provide that for him. That is your job.</p><p></p><p>Letting difficult child come back at this point will mean that in less than a week things will go south. he will figure he has you buffaloed and can do whatever he wants. </p><p></p><p>Based on your reaction to him wanting to come home, he would be right.</p><p></p><p>You and husband need to go to some counselling and to alanon or families anonymous. Learn to work together. Otherwise there will be more abuse charges against you and husband, and your home will be very unhappy.</p><p></p><p>He left. He cannot just waltz back in. Be suspicious of your sister. Normal siblings do NOT just let nephews run away and move in with htem and let the kid go back and forth until he finally stays with her.</p><p></p><p>She is up to something, her entire behavior is shady. Just very wrong. </p><p></p><p>She wanted him. Now she needs to keep him until he is 18, or at least until you have a better idea of what is going on.</p><p></p><p>Don't trust difficult child or your sis. Protect your easy child and husband and marriage and home. </p><p></p><p>I am sorry. I know this will be rough.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 296230, member: 1233"] This whole thing sounded hinky when you posted that he kept running away to your sister. Then when you refused to give her guardianship she refused to speak to you? You KNOW nothing positive could have happened in that household, not toward you and your husband. Step up, speak out and tell him and sis Not just no but Heyall no! (big southern drawl on that word too!) Sounds like your sis is tired of him and maybe put some rules onto him. Esp when as recently as mother's day all he wanted from you was emancipation. Listen to your instincts. They are screaming NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!! Your easy child has a right to a home that is peaceful and happy. You and husband have to provide that for him. That is your job. Letting difficult child come back at this point will mean that in less than a week things will go south. he will figure he has you buffaloed and can do whatever he wants. Based on your reaction to him wanting to come home, he would be right. You and husband need to go to some counselling and to alanon or families anonymous. Learn to work together. Otherwise there will be more abuse charges against you and husband, and your home will be very unhappy. He left. He cannot just waltz back in. Be suspicious of your sister. Normal siblings do NOT just let nephews run away and move in with htem and let the kid go back and forth until he finally stays with her. She is up to something, her entire behavior is shady. Just very wrong. She wanted him. Now she needs to keep him until he is 18, or at least until you have a better idea of what is going on. Don't trust difficult child or your sis. Protect your easy child and husband and marriage and home. I am sorry. I know this will be rough. [/QUOTE]
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