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I Really try to detach and be strong but I am so tired.  My husband just thinks I should be able to just "cut the cord" but I have always felt like I should help him.  As they say "a mother's love is unconditional". I have the book Codependent No More and have had for years and have read it several times.  I made an appointment with my psychologist for Feb 1st.  I tape all of my sessions with him and go back and listen to them but know what I need to do but have trouble doing it.  My husband is such a good man.  I feel like I am not being fair to him.  This is a terrible place to be in