Okie girl, I am sorry you feel so torn.
I have done a lot of thinking about what it means to love unconditionally. Surely it can't mean spending all of our hard-earned savings, dying at their feet, giving up all that WE hold dear, hurting and neglecting the ones who love US unconditionally? That isn't love, that's martyrdom.
What do you see as required of you, in order to feel you are treating your son lovingly?
