Yes, she has an IEP. Aides in 3 out of 4 core classes. They did not give her an aide in Math this year, because when she works one on one she is REALLY good in Math, so they do not feel she needs the help. She also has resource room 3 out of 4 days. I recently called them about helping her in the resource room with Math and they said 'she has not asked for any help'. I said with an average of 57%, don't you know she is struggling? Go to her. I know at 15 she should be able to ask for help, but she will not typically be the one to approach them.
I will work on the school help. But, I would like to know what I should start doing at home. I would like to start slowly and prevent meltdowns. Maybe it is a bit of PTSD on my part. I am a bit fearful of the confrontation that feels inevitable.
