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I would keep the appointment and try to make appts monthly with her. I would mention to her that you tried to call and she didnt call back. Say something like..."I am sure you must have not got my messages because we were really worried about difficult child and tried to reach you" and see what she says. If she fluffs you off, then just make the appts for monthly and work with your pediatrician as best you can between appts.
Start the move as fast as possible. Do you have a Realtor yet? LOL. Need boxes?
Do contact psychiatrists and therapists in Tucson before you commit. Interview them by phone. Make sure they are available. You dont want to jump from the frying pan into the fire.
