Thank you U&D and Nature. I am rooting for him too. I wish he could just mature overnight. I feel that is such a major component here.
My husband was a wild child and I think he got too many of his genes. My husband is wonderful now and overly responsibly so maybe there is hope!
I'm just standing back as far as I can and letting him work his way through all of this. He knows what he wants out of life but is having a helluva time getting there.