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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 745134" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Elsi, I wish more than anything that I had a magic answer for you. One of the hardest things we have to do is accept what is unacceptable. The words are easy to say but putting them into action takes time.</p><p></p><p>I've been where you are with my son. I have gone very long periods of time, many months, not knowing if he was alive or dead. Sadly, their concern is not for us and the hurt and desperation we feel needing to know that they are okay. Their concern is for themselves and the need to feed their habits. </p><p></p><p>The only thing that helped me to move on was to go through the grieving process and to accept the very worst could happen. I had to let go of the fear of the unknown as it was paralyzing me. I know how much it hurts and I know the fear but you need to take care of yourself.</p><p></p><p>I am so very sorry. ((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 745134, member: 18516"] Elsi, I wish more than anything that I had a magic answer for you. One of the hardest things we have to do is accept what is unacceptable. The words are easy to say but putting them into action takes time. I've been where you are with my son. I have gone very long periods of time, many months, not knowing if he was alive or dead. Sadly, their concern is not for us and the hurt and desperation we feel needing to know that they are okay. Their concern is for themselves and the need to feed their habits. The only thing that helped me to move on was to go through the grieving process and to accept the very worst could happen. I had to let go of the fear of the unknown as it was paralyzing me. I know how much it hurts and I know the fear but you need to take care of yourself. I am so very sorry. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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