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<blockquote data-quote="Albatross" data-source="post: 751542" data-attributes="member: 17720"><p>Welcome, ENM.</p><p></p><p>How awful. I am so sorry that happened. One of those parenting moments that make us wonder what the £*[] happened, because obviously they weren’t raised that way...</p><p></p><p>No one here will judge. I know I won’t! When my son was about 21, he was living in our home because he was “between” jobs ( not working and refusing to look ). There was an opening at the health food store where I worked on an occasional basis. I got an application for Son and let my boss know he would be applying. I was also forcing Son to drop applications off at other employers in town, most of whom said they drug-tested before hiring.</p><p></p><p>A few days later, I arrived at work. Taped to the front door was a blurry surveillance photo of a man who stole a “clean your pee” kit to pass urine drug screening. The face wasn’t visible in the photo, but the figure was thin with light brown hair (like Son) and was wearing a striped shirt like the one Son was wearing that day. It seemed too odd to have been a coincidence.</p><p></p><p>Of course Son denied it was him, and I didn’t have any proof it was, so I couldn’t and didn’t pursue it...but I sure didn’t follow up on Son applying where I worked!</p><p></p><p>This is on your daughter, not on you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Albatross, post: 751542, member: 17720"] Welcome, ENM. How awful. I am so sorry that happened. One of those parenting moments that make us wonder what the £*[] happened, because obviously they weren’t raised that way... No one here will judge. I know I won’t! When my son was about 21, he was living in our home because he was “between” jobs ( not working and refusing to look ). There was an opening at the health food store where I worked on an occasional basis. I got an application for Son and let my boss know he would be applying. I was also forcing Son to drop applications off at other employers in town, most of whom said they drug-tested before hiring. A few days later, I arrived at work. Taped to the front door was a blurry surveillance photo of a man who stole a “clean your pee” kit to pass urine drug screening. The face wasn’t visible in the photo, but the figure was thin with light brown hair (like Son) and was wearing a striped shirt like the one Son was wearing that day. It seemed too odd to have been a coincidence. Of course Son denied it was him, and I didn’t have any proof it was, so I couldn’t and didn’t pursue it...but I sure didn’t follow up on Son applying where I worked! This is on your daughter, not on you. [/QUOTE]
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