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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 741795" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you. I totally think its great that you can Face Time your Baby and I pray his little heart is able to heal. It is so cool that we can now watch these things from afar!</p><p></p><p>I love that you journal. That is one thing I have not done. Good idea. And I too hope you can one day give what you collected to your child, one at least.</p><p></p><p>You are an amazing mother and person! I wish the world had more of you! You truly deserve the best.</p><p></p><p>We are in different places. My son is older. I have come to terms that this is him and I dont ruminate over him. But when I talk to him its hard not to want to tell him what to do to feel better. He is not on drugs so this is who he is. And it is hard for me to admit that people to him are only vsluable if they can serve him in some ways. He does not go out of his way for anyone except his son and in that capacity he does TOO much BUT in return expects a little boy to be his best friend snd ally, which does serve him. But he is obsessed with him. In a very sad way he expects his child to be his best buddy for life.</p><p></p><p>And J. Is actually a normal kid. Or he started out that way. Sweet, very smart (top of his class), likes to hang with his friends, actually is or WAS (circumstances are changing him) easy going, sweet and funny. Now he is fighting abuse in one home and being made a parent and confidente in the other. Poor kid.</p><p></p><p>Like you, Elsi, I have a busy life. Two of my adult kids live right near me and we are all very close and interact often. I keep in close touch with Princess and Baby who are in Chicago.I volunteer four days a week which is like a job for free. My husband is retired and we hang like best friends. We get along great.</p><p></p><p>But I have moments when I wish Bart would enjoy people, know how to love others and join us. In a healthy way. We have so much fun. </p><p></p><p>But it is just a wish. People who think they are fine and dont seek help don't change. At times I wonder if he is on the spectrum, but I think he is too aware and able to plot for that. He isnt innocent. He is very sharp and aware and knows how to play people. Autistics dont have those people skills and the ones I have met are naive and kind. So I don't think so.</p><p></p><p>I appreciate your thoughtful response.</p><p></p><p>Have a great day. Our dog trainer for our Rescue is coming soon and then Jumper and Sonic are going out with us....so I am sure that for now Bart wont be on mind. I have my phone on vibrate.</p><p></p><p>Love snd light,! And many thanks!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 741795, member: 1550"] Thank you. I totally think its great that you can Face Time your Baby and I pray his little heart is able to heal. It is so cool that we can now watch these things from afar! I love that you journal. That is one thing I have not done. Good idea. And I too hope you can one day give what you collected to your child, one at least. You are an amazing mother and person! I wish the world had more of you! You truly deserve the best. We are in different places. My son is older. I have come to terms that this is him and I dont ruminate over him. But when I talk to him its hard not to want to tell him what to do to feel better. He is not on drugs so this is who he is. And it is hard for me to admit that people to him are only vsluable if they can serve him in some ways. He does not go out of his way for anyone except his son and in that capacity he does TOO much BUT in return expects a little boy to be his best friend snd ally, which does serve him. But he is obsessed with him. In a very sad way he expects his child to be his best buddy for life. And J. Is actually a normal kid. Or he started out that way. Sweet, very smart (top of his class), likes to hang with his friends, actually is or WAS (circumstances are changing him) easy going, sweet and funny. Now he is fighting abuse in one home and being made a parent and confidente in the other. Poor kid. Like you, Elsi, I have a busy life. Two of my adult kids live right near me and we are all very close and interact often. I keep in close touch with Princess and Baby who are in Chicago.I volunteer four days a week which is like a job for free. My husband is retired and we hang like best friends. We get along great. But I have moments when I wish Bart would enjoy people, know how to love others and join us. In a healthy way. We have so much fun. But it is just a wish. People who think they are fine and dont seek help don't change. At times I wonder if he is on the spectrum, but I think he is too aware and able to plot for that. He isnt innocent. He is very sharp and aware and knows how to play people. Autistics dont have those people skills and the ones I have met are naive and kind. So I don't think so. I appreciate your thoughtful response. Have a great day. Our dog trainer for our Rescue is coming soon and then Jumper and Sonic are going out with us....so I am sure that for now Bart wont be on mind. I have my phone on vibrate. Love snd light,! And many thanks! [/QUOTE]
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