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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 401785"><p>I too have felt my share of guilt about my difficult child, the pain he seems to be in, and questioning myself to what I could have done differently. I especially felt guilt about some stuff I found out recently regarding my difficult children treatment of my daughter. BUT I realize that I really did the best I could with the information I had at the time. My actions regarding my kids have always been out of love. I can get hung up on the what ifs and should haves but that guilt really does not help me or them... and in a way can keep me stuck in the past which does none of us any good. All I can do is in the here and now and I think I am dong a lot to support both my kids and to make sure they know I love them. I can't change the past. And the bottom line I have realized is nature is very strong and I am convinced that a lot of my sons issues are hard wired from birth... Do what you can to let go of the guilt and to find ways to take care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 401785"] I too have felt my share of guilt about my difficult child, the pain he seems to be in, and questioning myself to what I could have done differently. I especially felt guilt about some stuff I found out recently regarding my difficult children treatment of my daughter. BUT I realize that I really did the best I could with the information I had at the time. My actions regarding my kids have always been out of love. I can get hung up on the what ifs and should haves but that guilt really does not help me or them... and in a way can keep me stuck in the past which does none of us any good. All I can do is in the here and now and I think I am dong a lot to support both my kids and to make sure they know I love them. I can't change the past. And the bottom line I have realized is nature is very strong and I am convinced that a lot of my sons issues are hard wired from birth... Do what you can to let go of the guilt and to find ways to take care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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