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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 539884" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Given that difficult child 1 abandonment issues are so intense, I'd wait until he's stable and abandonment is not really an issue for him...........unless like you said, he shows an interest. I wouldn't risk a child's emotional stability, that to me goes right up there with abuse & neglect. </p><p></p><p>You might want to discuss this with difficult child 1's therapist though, as believe it or not, this *might* be some of his issues with abandonment even though his bio wasn't in his life really much to cause you to think about it. When he is more stable, and has been so for a while.....it might be good for him to explore how his bio might have played a part in the issues he has. Know what I mean??</p><p></p><p>But I would not risk his emotional stability over it, nope. Not unless forced to do so.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 539884, member: 84"] Given that difficult child 1 abandonment issues are so intense, I'd wait until he's stable and abandonment is not really an issue for him...........unless like you said, he shows an interest. I wouldn't risk a child's emotional stability, that to me goes right up there with abuse & neglect. You might want to discuss this with difficult child 1's therapist though, as believe it or not, this *might* be some of his issues with abandonment even though his bio wasn't in his life really much to cause you to think about it. When he is more stable, and has been so for a while.....it might be good for him to explore how his bio might have played a part in the issues he has. Know what I mean?? But I would not risk his emotional stability over it, nope. Not unless forced to do so. [/QUOTE]
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