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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 539939"><p>While I like the idea of the lawyer calling him; I also think it could be prudent to call him yourself if you are so inclined and don't want to get a lawyer involved yet. Just *67 (or however you disguise your number) from your phone before calling him or call from a public phone or a lawyers office or even a police department- just some place else that's totally unrelated to you. (not a friend's house or workplace etc)</p><p></p><p>I am guessing that if he really wanted to get a hold of you to mess with you - he could since he has your address. I guess I see the contact through the C/S officer as kind of a polite attempt to open communication? </p><p></p><p>I think I would be willing to call myself and feel him out over the phone and be prepared to hang up if the call goes in a direction I don't like...and I definitely don't think you should consider involving your kids...</p><p></p><p>I guess I am concerned that he is ill or found out about some genetic condition or maybe just needs to know his kids are OK? I don't know... honestly, in your shoes the curiosity would get to me!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 539939"] While I like the idea of the lawyer calling him; I also think it could be prudent to call him yourself if you are so inclined and don't want to get a lawyer involved yet. Just *67 (or however you disguise your number) from your phone before calling him or call from a public phone or a lawyers office or even a police department- just some place else that's totally unrelated to you. (not a friend's house or workplace etc) I am guessing that if he really wanted to get a hold of you to mess with you - he could since he has your address. I guess I see the contact through the C/S officer as kind of a polite attempt to open communication? I think I would be willing to call myself and feel him out over the phone and be prepared to hang up if the call goes in a direction I don't like...and I definitely don't think you should consider involving your kids... I guess I am concerned that he is ill or found out about some genetic condition or maybe just needs to know his kids are OK? I don't know... honestly, in your shoes the curiosity would get to me! [/QUOTE]
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