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<blockquote data-quote="welcometowitsend" data-source="post: 539979" data-attributes="member: 14356"><p>I love Insane's idea as well. Maybe if X is stable and can provide some medical records to the lawyer to show he's been receiving medications and treatment for x period of time you might feel a little more comfortable letting him have some contact with the twins? </p><p></p><p>My concern would be that if you don't at least look into it and the twins find out (now or later) that they will resent you for not allowing them to have a relationship with their dad. The flip side to that is that they could resent you for reintroducing someone that is unstable into their lives. Tough call.</p><p></p><p>But if he can communicate with you through the lawyer and provide some documentation as to his mental status and how long he has been stable then you could certainly consider it. Another thing I might request is that he have a waiting period and continue to communicate through the lawyer during that waiting period. That would rule out impulsivity on his part and would show a commitment from him for pursuing this relationship over the long term.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="welcometowitsend, post: 539979, member: 14356"] I love Insane's idea as well. Maybe if X is stable and can provide some medical records to the lawyer to show he's been receiving medications and treatment for x period of time you might feel a little more comfortable letting him have some contact with the twins? My concern would be that if you don't at least look into it and the twins find out (now or later) that they will resent you for not allowing them to have a relationship with their dad. The flip side to that is that they could resent you for reintroducing someone that is unstable into their lives. Tough call. But if he can communicate with you through the lawyer and provide some documentation as to his mental status and how long he has been stable then you could certainly consider it. Another thing I might request is that he have a waiting period and continue to communicate through the lawyer during that waiting period. That would rule out impulsivity on his part and would show a commitment from him for pursuing this relationship over the long term. [/QUOTE]
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