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<blockquote data-quote="bigbear11" data-source="post: 541310"><p>Thanks for all the comments... it helps. With regard to the taking her on to VBS after the rages... my husband needed the break and she had calmed down but I agree it would have been a good natural consequence. Sometimes it is just to the point of -- she gets out of the house for a few hours and he gets a much needed break. He is a stay at home dad so summers can be really tough depending on the day. ;-)</p><p></p><p>Regarding therapy. She isn't in any right now. I know she needs to be but we haven't been able to find anyone who has experience with this type of stuff in kids in our area. Plus with her speech delays getting her to talk about what is bothering her (assuming she recognizes it) is hard. But we need to get started with this I agree.</p><p></p><p>My husband and I need to talk and come to agreement on what we are going to have as consequences and make sure we stick with it (haven't always which I understand doesn't help the situation). The natural consequences like making a mess - cleaning it up, breaking something - earning $$ to replace, etc will be easy. What we need to agree upon is what to do with the violence toward us. Kind of hard to have a natural consequence to that. Needs to be something that she "feels" so as to help her understandBut we need to agree and tell her up front what it will be, do it and stay consistant. Should be easy!!! yea right....</p><p></p><p>Anyway we are going and leave tommorrow. We'll be back on Wednesday... wish us luck!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bigbear11, post: 541310"] Thanks for all the comments... it helps. With regard to the taking her on to VBS after the rages... my husband needed the break and she had calmed down but I agree it would have been a good natural consequence. Sometimes it is just to the point of -- she gets out of the house for a few hours and he gets a much needed break. He is a stay at home dad so summers can be really tough depending on the day. ;-) Regarding therapy. She isn't in any right now. I know she needs to be but we haven't been able to find anyone who has experience with this type of stuff in kids in our area. Plus with her speech delays getting her to talk about what is bothering her (assuming she recognizes it) is hard. But we need to get started with this I agree. My husband and I need to talk and come to agreement on what we are going to have as consequences and make sure we stick with it (haven't always which I understand doesn't help the situation). The natural consequences like making a mess - cleaning it up, breaking something - earning $$ to replace, etc will be easy. What we need to agree upon is what to do with the violence toward us. Kind of hard to have a natural consequence to that. Needs to be something that she "feels" so as to help her understandBut we need to agree and tell her up front what it will be, do it and stay consistant. Should be easy!!! yea right.... Anyway we are going and leave tommorrow. We'll be back on Wednesday... wish us luck!! [/QUOTE]
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