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Whats difference between purposely acting up and real issues? Tantrum now - Damages:(
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 605890"><p>Here I am again, yes **** I yelled this morning! He has been falling asleep at 9pm (or 10 minutes before )since school started- huge improvement from before but that is not his bedtime!!! I start slowing him down at 6:30pm with attempting a bath, reading with him, light stretches, tucking him into bed and suppose to be asleep by 7:30pm. ( was 8pm) but it takes him 2-3 hours I kids you not ( rarely he gets ready within 30 minutes -1hr). I try to have him the 10-11 hours</p><p></p><p>Anyway.. we started tickling, talking nice etc at 5am. Finally at 6:30 am he gets outa bed and refuses shower ( refused last night too) so I said ok get dressed. Well, he all sudden started from no where again after I touched his clothes" ewwwwwwww its dirty u touched ur hands r dirty" I tried to show him my clean hands and he freaked saying" eww you touched me" I didnt touch him I was a few inches from him! Hes obssed with the" plate smells, the plate is cracked, the plate is dirty, a fly landed on it." Once in a blue moon their might be a stain or a piece of something dried on but thats like extremely rare here- very rare. We are clean people, but normal wise not Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) clean but not dirty. Make sense? I bought him paper plates yesterday and he still had a lil issue.. today he will cuz the palastic was opened yesterday <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" />. So anyway he threw his tantrum slam kick doors, and now he is home..AGAIN!!! Tardy two times and absent now 2 times and school just started on the 12th!!!!</p><p></p><p>Last night he flooded the bathroom ruines 6 1/2 rolls of toilet paper ( two he stacked behind the toilet) even got got/put water on the shelves where the other rolls of T.P were plus my hairdryers!!! That was because he asked about the Cub Scouts but I told him he has to show he can do his class and homework first.</p><p></p><p>Now hes still screaming bloody murder and wants to go to school. Do I allow him late today? It will be a couple hours till hes actually ready.. That will equal 3 tardies and two absent because 3 tardies = an absence <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p></p><p>I cant have liquid soap because he uses sooooo much and when mad pours everything out all over, hes peeling off the wood from the bathroom door. We parised him how good he was the night before last <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> b4 tantrum) on doing his h.w even tho took hours, he got up, and tantrum getting ready but we got there in time. I am trying to praise even more than usual and hardly mention the the bad as suggested. I know it takes time Im just venting. </p><p></p><p>He never had these "germ and fly " issues like this. O hes ask if we washed our hands in return while us asking him preparing for a meal or something. But not like this!!! Im calling his Dr again today and telling them we are not waiting for the flu shot, we need an appointment NOW!!!! </p><p></p><p>He claims he knows what mad, emotions etc are, and ALL of sudden these new issues.. wouldnt he of always been this way? Always tantrums... why now the dirty abd bug issue? The people out his window? Is this normal for his age? Whats normal for his age? My daughter wasnt/ isnt like this. Even my cousin was out control when my sons age still no germ orp eople issue, heck really no tantrums just lied all times and stole ( still bad ).</p><p></p><p>Sorry... so long as usual <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/groooansmileyf.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":groan:" title="groan :groan:" data-shortname=":groan:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/mornincoffee.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":mornincoffee:" title="mornincoffee :mornincoffee:" data-shortname=":mornincoffee:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/sigh.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sigh:" title="sigh :sigh:" data-shortname=":sigh:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 605890"] Here I am again, yes **** I yelled this morning! He has been falling asleep at 9pm (or 10 minutes before )since school started- huge improvement from before but that is not his bedtime!!! I start slowing him down at 6:30pm with attempting a bath, reading with him, light stretches, tucking him into bed and suppose to be asleep by 7:30pm. ( was 8pm) but it takes him 2-3 hours I kids you not ( rarely he gets ready within 30 minutes -1hr). I try to have him the 10-11 hours Anyway.. we started tickling, talking nice etc at 5am. Finally at 6:30 am he gets outa bed and refuses shower ( refused last night too) so I said ok get dressed. Well, he all sudden started from no where again after I touched his clothes" ewwwwwwww its dirty u touched ur hands r dirty" I tried to show him my clean hands and he freaked saying" eww you touched me" I didnt touch him I was a few inches from him! Hes obssed with the" plate smells, the plate is cracked, the plate is dirty, a fly landed on it." Once in a blue moon their might be a stain or a piece of something dried on but thats like extremely rare here- very rare. We are clean people, but normal wise not Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) clean but not dirty. Make sense? I bought him paper plates yesterday and he still had a lil issue.. today he will cuz the palastic was opened yesterday :(. So anyway he threw his tantrum slam kick doors, and now he is home..AGAIN!!! Tardy two times and absent now 2 times and school just started on the 12th!!!! Last night he flooded the bathroom ruines 6 1/2 rolls of toilet paper ( two he stacked behind the toilet) even got got/put water on the shelves where the other rolls of T.P were plus my hairdryers!!! That was because he asked about the Cub Scouts but I told him he has to show he can do his class and homework first. Now hes still screaming bloody murder and wants to go to school. Do I allow him late today? It will be a couple hours till hes actually ready.. That will equal 3 tardies and two absent because 3 tardies = an absence :( I cant have liquid soap because he uses sooooo much and when mad pours everything out all over, hes peeling off the wood from the bathroom door. We parised him how good he was the night before last :( b4 tantrum) on doing his h.w even tho took hours, he got up, and tantrum getting ready but we got there in time. I am trying to praise even more than usual and hardly mention the the bad as suggested. I know it takes time Im just venting. He never had these "germ and fly " issues like this. O hes ask if we washed our hands in return while us asking him preparing for a meal or something. But not like this!!! Im calling his Dr again today and telling them we are not waiting for the flu shot, we need an appointment NOW!!!! He claims he knows what mad, emotions etc are, and ALL of sudden these new issues.. wouldnt he of always been this way? Always tantrums... why now the dirty abd bug issue? The people out his window? Is this normal for his age? Whats normal for his age? My daughter wasnt/ isnt like this. Even my cousin was out control when my sons age still no germ orp eople issue, heck really no tantrums just lied all times and stole ( still bad ). Sorry... so long as usual :groooansmileyf::mornincoffee::sigh: [/QUOTE]
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