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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 294550" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Do any of you feel tremendous angst in the fact that we fear our own offspring? We gave birth to them, (or adopted them at birth), loved them unconditionally, they messed up, and hurt us, deeply - yet now they are trying, but we as parents are still damaged. For me, I feel it is such a sad deal - that as hard as Matt tries - I cannot internally forget. I do not want that type of mother son relationship. And it is not fair to him, to try and "talk about it, or work through it in counseling". He has/is already suffering the consequences. There is no need for familial guilt.</p><p></p><p>I don't know. How do you work past this?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 294550, member: 3301"] Do any of you feel tremendous angst in the fact that we fear our own offspring? We gave birth to them, (or adopted them at birth), loved them unconditionally, they messed up, and hurt us, deeply - yet now they are trying, but we as parents are still damaged. For me, I feel it is such a sad deal - that as hard as Matt tries - I cannot internally forget. I do not want that type of mother son relationship. And it is not fair to him, to try and "talk about it, or work through it in counseling". He has/is already suffering the consequences. There is no need for familial guilt. I don't know. How do you work past this? [/QUOTE]
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