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When is total detachment the right thing to do?
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<blockquote data-quote="BackintheSaddle" data-source="post: 617653" data-attributes="member: 17503"><p>Thank you both for responding...I've read enough of your threads to know you're experts living this life...MWM is right but how do you do that? you make it sound so easy to just stop and cut them off...the therapist's rationale was that since I can pay for his school and he's sticking with it and doing well, I should continue in order to show him I want him to be a success-- and this is a guy who specializes in ODD, ADHD and the transition from home to being on your own (my son's shrink recommended him and he's very directive which is what I need right now)...my son of course says he thinks I don't love him since I was willing to kick him out...which is one of many ways he manipulates my parents to be against me and builds up my guilt...this web site is so awesome to help gain perspective...I get so caught up in the guilt and sadness that I can't see straight...I hope I can get more in touch with my anger today so I'm not so damn mopey...still in my PJs, got next to no sleep last night, and just a mess...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BackintheSaddle, post: 617653, member: 17503"] Thank you both for responding...I've read enough of your threads to know you're experts living this life...MWM is right but how do you do that? you make it sound so easy to just stop and cut them off...the therapist's rationale was that since I can pay for his school and he's sticking with it and doing well, I should continue in order to show him I want him to be a success-- and this is a guy who specializes in ODD, ADHD and the transition from home to being on your own (my son's shrink recommended him and he's very directive which is what I need right now)...my son of course says he thinks I don't love him since I was willing to kick him out...which is one of many ways he manipulates my parents to be against me and builds up my guilt...this web site is so awesome to help gain perspective...I get so caught up in the guilt and sadness that I can't see straight...I hope I can get more in touch with my anger today so I'm not so damn mopey...still in my PJs, got next to no sleep last night, and just a mess... [/QUOTE]
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