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When is total detachment the right thing to do?
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<blockquote data-quote="Echolette" data-source="post: 618128" data-attributes="member: 17269"><p>"They just don't think the way we do...........it isn't about love, trust, responsibility, intimacy, friendship or connection............it is about where you can get what you want or think you need RIGHT NOW." (from recoverings post)</p><p></p><p>That is helpful, and, I think, not true. And taking it further...they don't dismiss the love, trust, responsibility, I, F, or C....they just don't factor it in, at all. It isn't there. All they have is what they want or need right now.</p><p></p><p>I am working on not being angry, which is eating me up right now. I think this might help. </p><p></p><p>and this:</p><p></p><p>"And then finally, we learned something different. We became so so so tired and weary of it all. Nothing ever changed no matter how much we listened, how much money we threw at the problem, how much time we spent running around like a crazy person trying to "help." In fact things got worse. </p><p></p><p>And we woke up." (from Child's post)</p><p></p><p>That is where I am right now...so fragily, so newly, so uncomfortably...and yet....that last paragraph is exactly right. Nothing ever changed. And I woke up. and the forum, Cedar, REcovinering Child, MWM, and others are all helping.</p><p></p><p>Keep walking forward. </p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERjMlOi" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERjMlOi</a></p><p></p><p></p><p>Read more: <a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERKhmDl" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERKhmDl</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Echolette, post: 618128, member: 17269"] "They just don't think the way we do...........it isn't about love, trust, responsibility, intimacy, friendship or connection............it is about where you can get what you want or think you need RIGHT NOW." (from recoverings post) That is helpful, and, I think, not true. And taking it further...they don't dismiss the love, trust, responsibility, I, F, or C....they just don't factor it in, at all. It isn't there. All they have is what they want or need right now. I am working on not being angry, which is eating me up right now. I think this might help. and this: "And then finally, we learned something different. We became so so so tired and weary of it all. Nothing ever changed no matter how much we listened, how much money we threw at the problem, how much time we spent running around like a crazy person trying to "help." In fact things got worse. And we woke up." (from Child's post) That is where I am right now...so fragily, so newly, so uncomfortably...and yet....that last paragraph is exactly right. Nothing ever changed. And I woke up. and the forum, Cedar, REcovinering Child, MWM, and others are all helping. Keep walking forward. Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERjMlOi[/url] Read more: [url]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/when-is-total-detachment-the-right-thing-to-do.56238/page-2#ixzz2rERKhmDl[/url] [/QUOTE]
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