Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
When love has to be tough
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 334364"><p>Thanks Witz. I always appreciate your "tell it like it is" perspective. But the guilt comes because all my life it's been my mission to make sure everyone else around me was "okay". It was a survival mechanism because I grew up in an alcoholic home. So even though I know "it's not my job" any more it's still hard. I'm working on it but I need the wise ladies here like yourself to back me up. I'm asking husband to do what is difficult and it's making him unhappy and I need to detach from that. I can't feel his guilt because my shoulders are not that strong any more. I don't have it in me to step in front of oncoming trains these days. If the train hits I guess that's when true growth begins. I just need friends right now. So thank you!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 334364"] Thanks Witz. I always appreciate your "tell it like it is" perspective. But the guilt comes because all my life it's been my mission to make sure everyone else around me was "okay". It was a survival mechanism because I grew up in an alcoholic home. So even though I know "it's not my job" any more it's still hard. I'm working on it but I need the wise ladies here like yourself to back me up. I'm asking husband to do what is difficult and it's making him unhappy and I need to detach from that. I can't feel his guilt because my shoulders are not that strong any more. I don't have it in me to step in front of oncoming trains these days. If the train hits I guess that's when true growth begins. I just need friends right now. So thank you! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
When love has to be tough
Top