Wow! That is difficult. I would be mad as well if I had to wait so long without a return phone call. Have you ever thought of doing a search for an area to live that would have the best services available, and make a move? I realize that could be a hard thing to do also...but perhaps for the future? In the mean time, you have to work with what you have. Do the schools have services for her? Have you tried networking by word of mouth to find other psychiatrists that might be more considerate and available by phone or email when you need them? Is there a NAMI nearby? Perhaps you could call the closest state NAMI, and ask their advice. It might be a good starting place to learn about new information.
Take some deep breaths! Hopefully a mood stabilizer will be on board soon, and life will be somewhat better.
