Totoro,
With the messages you left, I don't really understand why the psychiatrist wouldn't have called back. I can share with you that my difficult child's psychiatrist, and we live in a pretty large metropolitan area, told me that there are just not enough pediatric psychiatrists to go around. The ones that are, are overbooked. You usually have to wait a couple months for a new patient appointment at all pediatric psychiatrist offices around here.
I certainly hope you hear today - if you don't hear by midmorning, I would call again. Sorry that your daughter is so unstable right now. Hugs.
Sharon